an offline, no-app way to meet other nyc singles. we get to know our members, then bring them together for small group social events.

the rest happens naturally.

join the waitlist

01 - questionnaire
a short form to give us a sense of who you are and what you value.

becoming a member

02 - quick chat
a 10-15 minute call with our team to understand who you are beyond a form.

becoming a member is a two step process that helps us get to know you. we use this to curate exciting experiences where our members can meet other singles who have similar values and intentions.


once accepted you'll receive private invitations to small group experiences in the nyc area with other mecu singles.

events are designed to create a low pressure environment where sparking up a conversation feels natural.

we are not matchmakers. we believe the best romance stories start by being in the right place at the right time.

the member experience